Shattered Truth

I have a fear of divorce and is being done the way my relationship w / my boyfriend of 4 1 / 2 years becomes more serious?

I love to and trust on it and I feel fortunate to be his gf. but I am so afraid that if he got married and we deceive divorce. What if later in life as 25 years later and I let someone younger? I like kids and I think that's part of the reason. I keep thinking "she's cute, but 20 years from now now the little bitch is trying to steal ur husband. I know the result of my insecurities and need to fix this fast before it starts having an impact on my relationship. but this is a fear sunk (divorce, infidelity) and I do not know how to handle it. whenever one thing I proved them wrong about something else. I do not want to attract this approach that seems a lot, but i cannot stop. my parents are divorced b / c my father to my mother, 4 of another person and now hes married to her. i love my parents, but I still 4 bothers and I have scared b / ci do not want to end up like my mom, even tho i look up to her. plz help What should I do?

I think that most people forget that trust is one of the most important qualities relations ina. If you can not trust him, or is it legit or not his intuition and paranoia are wrong. If he is not trustworthy should not marry him. If your intuition and paranoia that are wrong, they will eventually drive him away. His only hope now is that advice to help both the figure the root cause of the problem to see if they can solve. A word to the wise – I am a divorced father of two teenagers and I was married for 18 years. Finally broke because he could never trust me. I never cheated on her, but she was always jealous of the time I spent with other people. If were women, it seems that he was fooling with them. If they were men, ended up hating them. He even began to hate me tutoring a child. I was determined see the marriage until the children graduate from high school, but ended up filing for divorce. All those years of fighting have left unresolved now as a bitter custody battle and now all our lives are ruined. All this was due to his insecurities will not let me breathe in the relationship. Moral of the story – if you can not trust him, one way or another their relationship is doomed. Do yourself a favor and be honest with yourself. If the problem is really you, seek help. If the problem is really it, get someone else.

Attorney Kathryn Dickerson discusses truth vs proof in divorce cases