Marriage Infidelity Recovery
Infidelity-divorced make your life better? Any regrets?
Almost a year and a half ago my husband came home from work late, I said it was not in love with me anymore and wanted a divorce, I said it was trapped and could not leave if he was not happy. Then he put a bag of things and left. He 8 months pregnant. He was gone for four months in which she had an affair. I did not know about it and asked him to attend marriage counceling while his case was going on. He went with me, but lied about being involved with anyone when he asked our counceler. I allowed him to move again, the matter is still unknown. After I found cell phone records, was still in contact with it. Since then, states have moved without further contact. Despite my pain. I decided to give marriage some time. I have read stories that sometimes matters of fact the strongest marriages. However, one year later, I am very unhappy. Every time I need some of it for my recovery, it is like pulling teeth. He says I am demanding and doesent want to argue.
As hard as it is, I think you should consider go ahead and let it go completely. Until you are ready to make not begin to heal. You need to completed and know that you were not the "no" to him or their marriage. It was he who decided to cheat and betray you. It also should not feel guilty if you do for any decisions taken. Used time and space that has to grow. In the long run, you better ….. best of luck **
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