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Can we justify infidelity? Polygamy is a solution?

This may be a question a little early to ask but have been asked over and again both by those who commit Infidelity In Marriage and those who are victims.

It is an interesting question as some scientists doubt whether human beings are primarily meant to be monogamous. Biologically, males and females in the search for the best partner at the time of fertility. For a male A list that female to mate and for women is when they are biologically prepared and find a suitable mate who is deemed strong and able to protect them and their descendants.

This remains the case in the animal kingdom, but as human beings have evolved to a point we are no longer linked to the biological imperatives are regulated by our brain.

However, this does not mean that we have outside of our primitive impulses. It just means to keep them at bay and society has developed rules and regulations of what is culturally acceptable.

We note that among the cultures, there are differences in what they perceive as acceptable. For a long time is acceptable for men to fall into infidelity, but for women who were severely punished. In fact today, even in Western societies, is still frowned upon for women who enjoy infidelity. This is a natural reaction as the female infidelity in marital relationships can often result in injustice to the children who are disenfranchised from a normal family.

Take an interesting case of a woman who had sex with her husband and her husband's twin 24 hours. The result is a long battle of who will pay child support, since not want to do as the Paternity tests are not able to determine which of them is the father. As it was, we can only feel sorry for the child who has to deal with a situation that has no part out of it and definitely does not deserve.

In some cultures, as the Muslim world, who have tried to reach a solution of fairness to children by banning all sexual relations outside marriage. But to stop infidelity in marriage and to prevent men from committing adultery, have allowed men to be polygamous. They see this as a solution for the protection of children and the first woman, would not have to be divorced and alone so often the case in the Western world.

For most of us, we would see this as being terribly unfair to women, but have explained that it is a realistic response to a situation in which the biological functions of men and women are not equal and never will be. Women will always be mothers and in many ways, the primary caregiver for their children.

With the liberalization of the rights of women and the gradual acceptance infidelity in women than in men, the immediate effects increase in divorce and marriage breakdown. In my opinion, children are often victims Of Infidelity. Of course, men are punished have to pay child support and other responsibilities continue, but at the end of the day, which is the children who are the real victims.

In the conclusion, infidelity in marriage which is basically a breach of contract will be a price to pay, either the other spouse or the person itself. But are the children who are innocent, but almost always have a price to pay.

It is for this reason that society does not should downplay the seriousness of a commitment or marriage. People should not be recalled to marry without seriously considering their commitments. The subject of infidelity in marriage on the contrary, should not be looked upon as a stand alone, but fully part of a whole package.

About the Author

Ann Hancock is a business consultant who likes to write on issues relating to human relationships.
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