Shattered Truth

Dating Mature Women

Korea is experiencing a remarkable change in attitude of society towards his men marrying older women. Historically, it has been socially unacceptable for a younger man to date an older woman. Not surprisingly for some, there is some logical basis for this cultural phenomenon.

For men, there was a natural instinct to enjoy younger female companion. From a physical perspective, they did not want a woman who is aging faster than them. There was also the belief that men grow the possibilities Of Infidelity is much greater if he married an older woman.

For women who did not want a wife who was more like a little brother. " Rather, they were looking for a pillar that is able to support and show leadership and guidance. The women wanted a big brother!

So what is the problem in the West? Is it dating or marrying older women still A mole on the face of society, too? Anyone realizes? As with some spots, depending on where they are on the face, which can go unnoticed, or even increase physical attractiveness. Marilyn Monroe, for example, comes to mind?

I think without a doubt that Western society is much more receptive "out standard "that our behavior is approved. In the West, anything goes. You really are living in the Wild, Wild, West.

But, interestingly, I still hear much talk about it. Dating older women not to attract attention, even in a country where being gay has become the mainstream.

For example, we have Demi Moore, Aston Kucher 45, 29. Most will say "Go Aston!" Demi Moore is HOT! In the West, an attractive older woman who is known like a puma. " I know a lot of kids who kill for the chance to date a cougar! Cougars are known to be masters in the bedroom, so say. Grrowwl.

If I were a betting man, however, I still put money on the table and claim that today most women prefer the date and marry an older man. Many women have a preconceived image of romantic knight in shining armor, with the body of Tarzan, the style of Richard Gere, and a dollar more than Bill Gates.

Therefore, it is socially acceptable to date someone significantly older or younger, regardless of gender and there a debate going on about this issue?

First, I think it's a matter of chemistry. If two people really dig each other, who cares what your timeline is? People in the relationship of course not, and therefore do not really care right?

Secondly, there probably is no debate. What is there to discuss if a couple lives happily ever after?

I suspect the debate in Korea, however, it is very hot, however. It has to be. Korea has a history of 5,000 years and social norms are deeply rooted in ancient traditions and mature enough to be considered cougars are probably too entrenched in culture to make the leap.

Clearly, however, there has been progress, as the trend is now recognized. That does not mean that there will continue to cause some flyers in pens, it will definitely.

Cross-chronological dating – a relationship where people are significantly different ages – will remain a point popular conversation for a long time in Korea, and most likely suspect for most of eastern and western countries of this continent planet.

Why is this so?

Due to the social acceptance of the cross-chronological (kind of rolls off the tongue, right?) And other unique types human relations, it is fun to watch and most importantly, fun to gossip about. Now that is what really comes down to right?

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Jim Lim | Seoul Mate | Social Commentator |
30 Something | Married

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