Infidelity Excuses
Infidelity with Airline Pilot Husband. Ugh. This sucks.?
Married for 10 years, together 15. 4 year old child. I thought we were happy. But now I think I’ve been totally played for a fool. I found stuff through search engines that attaches my husband of frequenting forums, personals websites, and chatrooms. This has gone back and forth over the past few years and we’re currently in a cycle of trying to rebuild trust and he’s been acting weird – always checking my computer, projecting his own guilt onto me. I got paranoid and followed his lead and checked his computer. Unfortunately I found forum posts for hook-ups that were made on very significant dates that make his infidelity all the more hurtful. I’m done with making excuses to myself. I don’t want to be an example of pathetic motherhood to my daughter.
Never been in this situation before – what are my options? Confrontation (ugh)? Therapy? Separation? Willful Avoidance?
He’s not seriously trying to patch up the marriage, even if he says he is. It’s time to sit down with him and discuss the options, including divorce. You can’t trust him – he’ll babble endlessly and try to cover his tracks, but it’s all noise – and he’s turning your effort into a joke. Good luck with this.
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29 Feb 12 at 9:08 am