Help Infidelity
My wife and my self are separated due to infidelity on his part.?
My wife and my self are separated due to infidelity on his part. Our three children live with me. my wife asks me Finacial aid because it is in arrears on their accounts. In my heart I want to help but my mind tells me no. Am I wrong for not helping her?
No you are not wrong in anyway. His wife is an adult, she did what he did knowing it was wrong and now is in trouble, let it out. In any case you would saying it was okay for her to do what he did by paying their bills for it. Besides, there are four of you, you and your three children do not even think of when they did what he did. You have three other mouths to feed, he obviously cares only about herself and her happiness when she did what she did. And here's the thing, obviously were not good enough for her, for whatever reason may have been that pushed her to cheat, but now, suddenly, she wants your help. In short, you're good enough to pay your bills, but not good enough to be her husband. Have him ask "Your Man" to pay your bills, your family is important, which is a sad thing that was not so important to her and you.
Coping With Infidelity – Divine Help Through Prayer!
Because they are freaking IDIOTS to the Nth degree.
Noemi Mcfadin
16 Apr 10 at 12:20 am
Most states are no fault, so no. Honestly I don’t think it should either. Cheating is terrible yes, but property division is a legal matter, not a reflection of your character.
Nicolasa Kiehl
19 Apr 10 at 4:31 am
Wow that is a tough situation. I can tell you from experience you may forgive but never forget. Allot of it depends on the situation. Time makes the hurt lessen but the one thing that is hardest to do is leave it in the past. It’s so hard to rebuild that trust. You feel guilty at times because you won’t let yourself trust. Something will happen to drudge up the past. But as time goes and your able to rebuild your trust it will eventually get shelved away.
Clara Shimsky
19 Apr 10 at 8:06 am
once is more than enough for me…
Marcie Bendolph
20 Apr 10 at 12:53 pm
They come home late a lot, they pick an argument for no reason, receive telephone calls at odd times, accuse you of running around on him/her, frequently ask you if you are having an affair, they are never satisfied.
Lelah Wollmuth
21 Apr 10 at 3:13 pm
Tigers a lion(lyin),he should stick to driving balls.
Alda Robert
30 Apr 10 at 10:15 am
idk but thx 4 da 2 pnts
Tad Juliana
30 Apr 10 at 2:01 pm
If you have a gut feeling, he’s probably thinking if not already cheating. If the deli closes at a certain time, and he’s still coming home late, try calling him, if he doesn’t answer his phone, he is hiding something.
Emmaline Goerdt
6 May 10 at 11:50 am