Dealing With Wife Infidelity
"Once a cheater, always a cheater" question.?
Yesterday, I sent a question about the phrase "Once a cheater, always a cheater ". There is a great many people who seem to firmly believe that once there is infidelity, cheating can not be trusted and no marriage can be saved. This statement is absolute and final and unconditional. My wife cheated about ten years ago. We fought hard, grew more and have a better marriage today than ever. It's a long story, but is actually better to deal with a relentless infidelity? Even very religious people told me when to step back, calm down and try to assess what happened and not rush to judge. With children, this problem becomes even more important. I take pride in the survival of my marriage, and even more pride in the fact that I never had to turn the upbringing of my children to "step-" part-time. Is not that a better approach, or should have just "dumped" her?
The Catholic Church ….. always hopes that there could be an opportunity for reconciliation, and marriage can be saved. although there are many cases where once a person cheats, they will ………. there are many well … learn the lesson the first time …. and no cheating. like most of the catch phrases …. have some truth …. but not the whole truth. I have helped many couples overcome infidelity ….. and have strong marriages sound later. Congratulations on yours.
Recognizing and Dealing with Emotional Infidelity